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FRIENDSHIP

WHEN I TALK ABOUT FRIENDSHIP I GET BRIMMED WITH THOUGHTS FULL OF POSITIVITY , HAPPINESS AND EXCITEMENT BECAUSE FRIENDS ARE THE PEOPLE WHO ENLIGHTEN YOUR LIFE AND UPLIFT YOUR MOOD WHENEVER YOU FEEL LOW.BUT THE TRUE ONES ARE THOSE WHO ALWAYS STAND BY YOUR SIDE COME WHAT MAY.THEY DON’T JUDGE YOU THEY ALWAYS TRY TO SUPPORT YOU AND ALWAYS STAND BY YOUR SIDE, THESE FRIENDS ARE THE BEST IN GIVING WONDERFUL ADVISES TO YOU WHEN YOU GET STUCK IN ANY OF THE MARRY-GO ROUNDS OF YOUR LIFE. IT IS ACTUALLY ONE OF THE BEST FEELINGS WHEN YOU CAN JUST SAY ANYTHING WITHOUT BEING UNCOMFORTABLE AND HESITANT. SOMETIMES SITUATIONS TAKE A STROLL AND AT THAT TIME ONE NEEDS SOMEONE TO JUST SIT BY YOUR SIDE LISTENING TO EVERYTHING WHICH HAS BEEN DEEPLY IMMERSED IN US FOR LONG.ONE SHOULD NOT TRY TO FOCUS ON THE QUANTITY OF FRIENDS RATHER OUR FOCUS SHOULD BE SHIFTED TO FIND THE BEST OF FRIENDS WE COULD GET IN ORDER TO SHARE AND MAKE THE BEST OF MEMORIES WITH THEM.GOOD FRIENDS HAVE MADE MEMORIES WITH YOU AND THE TRUE ONES HAVE LIVED THE BLISSFUL MEMORIES WITH YOU…..

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WORKING HARD:EXTERNALLY AS WELL AS INTERNALLLY

 

It is rightly said that the more you work harder the bigger success you achieve. But at times we forget that we have to work hard not only externally but internally as well. We all come across situations in our lives where we have to work hard may it be to get good grades, job, position or any other profit. We are so engrossed in proving ourselves better than others in any field through hardworking, so much so, that we forget working hard internally. One needs to know importance of internal hard work which deals with everything happening inside be it your thoughts, and try to give a thought At times when we have to score well in any examinations, or give presentations, we chalk out the short and simple methods including mugging up things and spill them out when required. But this keeps us hollow as it doesn’t help us gain anything internally. We keep getting frustrated to prove ourselves superior than others to an extent that there comes a stage when we realise that actually we have lost ourselves in the unproductive race. We can achieve something if we practice it by hard-working internally with our full concentration and understand the concept of everything to the roots so that we analytically work for our good from every angle and not just external. So apply this mantra to achieve all kinds of heights, success and catch all the opportunities just by hard-working externally as well as internally.

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Communication is Fundamental

Communication refers to sharing your views with one another by talking our heart out. But at certain point of time in our lives, we lack this skill to communicate. Sometimes we hesitate, sometimes we feel shy sometimes we subconsciously build negativeness for a person that we ourselves are not aware of. Silence can lead to assumptions which might not be true in real sense. This can cause confusion and misunderstandings in any relationship. Sometimes times when we do not communicate, we do not actually know the other person is thinking or what does the person want, we just simply assume that we are giving him/her the best so we expect that he/she should like it. But maybe he/she has a different mindset and does not consider that thing the best. In this way, confusions and misunderstandings build up like a castle that it becomes  hard to break. So why not communicate and live without all the mistaken happiness and sadness by accepting the truth through communication happily.

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TRUST

“TRUST” A SMALL FIVE-LETTER WORD PLAYS A ROLE OF MORE THAN 50% IN BUILDING ANY RELATIONSHIP. I BLINDLY TRUST GOD BECAUSE I HAVE A STRONG BELIEF AND FAITH IN HIM WHICH CANNOT BE BROKEN BY ANYTHING. SO, FOLLOW THESE MANTRAS AND DEVELOP AN UNBREAKABLE TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

  • TRUST IS LIKE YOUR BACKBONE WHICH SUPPORTS THE WHOLE BODY. IT’S LIKE THE WHEEL OF YOUR VEHICLE WITHOUT WHICH YOU CANNOT MAKE IT MOVE.
  • IT IS OUR FAITH IN GOD THAT WE ALWAYS FEEL THAT IF HE IS WITH US NOTHING WRONG CAN HAPPEN SIMILARLY IF WE TRUST SOMEONE WE HAVE A BELIEVE THAT HE/SHE WILL NEVER DO WRONG TO US.
  • TRUST INCREASES YOUR WILL POWER BECAUSE NOW YOU HAVE SOMEONE ALWAYS BY YOUR SIDE
  • TRUST IS AN IMPORTANT COMPONENT OF ANY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP .IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP LACKS TRUST IT IS HARD TO RELY ON EACH OTHER.
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WORLD AS WE VISUALISE

blog3                                                                     blog2Last weekend , I left my hometown to visit my village and spend some time with my cousins. I travelled by bus. It was all crowded inside. Many passengers climbed on to the roofs of the bus so that at least there they could get some room to sit there. During my journey, I observed a man who was in a hurry to reach his destination, criticizing  the driver, who in his opinion was driving at a slow speed. The man after every ten minutes shouted at the driver, “Can you drive a little faster, because if you move like this I will never reach my destination?” The driver replied in anger, “It’s my work and I know how to do it”. From the other hand , I heard a woman who thought that the bus was moving rather fast , and wanted the driver to slow down. According to her she was not able to enjoy her journey for which  she had paid. I was continuously looking at both of them and trying to comprehend the reason behind their frustrations and fury. Unconcerned to the situation, I saw the guy who was completely engrossed in enjoying the picturesque beauty of the nature and expressing his happiness ,“it’s so beautiful, marvelous , I just love this journey.”

The boy was talking to himself. He was least bothered about the surrounding, how people were falling on him, the crowd, the noises,  he was completely lost in his own world of enjoyment. I realized and that some people will always complain in whatever situation they are whereas there are others who always try to appreciate the situation, come what may.

This rightly proves the point that we perceive what we assume and yes it is, the “WORLD AS WE VISUALIZE”

 

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IMPORTANCE OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE

IT ALWAYS ADVISED TO PEOPLE TO DEVELOP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE TOWARDS EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO THEM.BUT IN THIS ENDEAVOR IT IS SOMETIMES TOUGH TO DEVELOP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE EVEN WHERE IT IS NECESSARY.PEOPLE THESE DAYS ARE SO STRESSED OUT IN THEIR LIFE , IN THEIR WORK ,THEIR PROJECTS ,THEIR TENSIONS THAT THEY DO NOT HAVE A SINGLE MINUTE TO GIVE A POSITIVE THOUGHT TO THE DAY AND THANK THE ALMIGHTY FOR EVERYTHING THAT THEY WERE BLESSED WITH THROUGHOUT THE DAY. NOWADAYS  WORK HAS TAKEN A TOLL ON THE MIND OF THE PEOPLE TO SUCH AN  EXTENT THEY HAVE BECOME COLD TO WEB SUCH PARAMETERS .THEY ARE SO INTERESTED IN FINDING THE  NEGATIVITIES PRESENT IN CERTAIN SITUATIONS OR PERSON.IT IS OFTEN SAID THAT DO NOT TRY TO FIND THE NEGATIVITIES IN PEOPLE OR SITUATIONS BECAUSE IF WE WOULD JUST CONCENTRATE ON NEGATIVITIES WE WOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO LOOK AT THE POSITIVE ASPECT OF THAT PARTICULAR SITUATION OR PERSON.THIS IS SAME AS THE THEORY OF PHYSICS WHICH STATES THAT EVERY ACTION HAS AN EQUAL AND OPPOSITE REACTION SO IF A PERSON IS POSITIVE IN HIS/HER ACTIONS HE IS ALWAYS LIKELY TO GET POSITIVITY IN RETURN AND VICE – VERSA. WHEN APPLIED THE SAME IN OUR LIVES ,THIS THEORY IS SAME TO MAKE THE WHOLE WORLD BLOSSOMED ONE DAY WITH POSITIVITY .

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Complicated Theory

LOVE IS A COMPLICATED THEORY

YET A BEAUTIFUL STORY.

IT IS NOT TOLD TO EVERYONE ,BUT

HAPPENS WITH FEW LUCKY ONES.

IT IS THE FEELING THAT CAN MESMERIZE YOU

IT IS THE FEELING THAT CAN SURPRISE YOU.

IN THIS THEORY

LOVE IS DIRECTLY PROPOTIONAL TO TRUST AND INVERSELY PROPOTIONAL TO HURT.

IT IS AS FIRM AS A DOME

AND AS COSY AS HOME

SO ENJOY THIS LOVELY FEELING OF LOVE

PURE LIKE A BEAUTIFUL DOVE

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COLORS OF LIFE

Colors of life are infinite

Some are dark and some are light

Dark shows darkness and sadness of life

Whereas light shows possibilities and happiness in life

Life is a journey,

With cries and smiles

It’s full of emotions, strong and mild

Colors of life are infinite

Starting with sadness and ending with smile

So always smile and enjoy these wonderful colors of life.

 

 

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HUMANS AND THEIR EMOTIONS

EMOTIONS   WHAT ARE THEY???

THEY ARE LIKE A TOOL FOR  HUMANS SO THAT THEY CAN EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS ,THEIR HAPPINESS ,THEIR PAIN ,THEIR ANGUISH TOWARDS OTHER HUMANS LIKE THEM OR THE SITUTATIONS FOR WHICH THEY DO NOT HAVE ANY CONTROL. ACTUALLY HUMANS DO NOT HAVE ANY CONTROL OVER ANYTHING BUT THA.T’S THE HUMAN NATURE , CAN’T  HELP IT!!!!!!!

SOMEONE TOLD ME THAT BEING EMOTIONAL IS NOT A WEAKNESS IT’S A  STRENTH NOT ONLY FOR ME BUT FOR EVERY ONE ..

SO YOU SHOULD NOT LEAVE ANY CHANCE WHERE YOU COULD HELP SOMEONE , SHOW YOUR CARE AND CONCERNE TOWARDS SOMEONE SO IT’ AWSOME IF YOU ARE EMOTIONAL

 

 

 

 

 

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Stay Positive

LIVING EVERY BIT OF YOUR LIFE AND ENJOYING THAT EVERY MOMENT IS THE BEST MANTRA FOR ANY ONE TO BE POSITIVE.

BEING POSITIVE NOT ONLY ENHANCES  OUR OUTER BEAUTY BUT BRINGS A GLOW ON OUR INNER BEAUTY ALSO

IT MAKES US LOOK MORE FRESH AND ENERGETIC

ADOPTION OF SOME INTRESTING METHODS TO REJUVINATE YOURSELF ONCE  AGAIN TO BE HAPPY AND PASSIONATE IN YOUR PROFESSION

SOMETIMES WHEN NEGETIVE THOUGHTS CATCH YOU UP AND YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO GET RID OF THEM ,     YOU WHAT I TRY

I DANCE AND DANCE AND DANCE

SO YOU SHOULD TRY SOMETHING  BRAND NEW THAT ENERGISES YOU FROM TOP TO BOTTOM.